
Rachel Gardner
Rachel is co-founder and Creative Director of the Romance Academy, a relationships-positive
project that builds young people’s self esteem enhanced by sexual delay. The very
first Romance Academy was the subject of the BBC2 documentary ‘No sex please we’re
teenagers.’ She trains Youth Workers and Peer Educators across the UK and Sweden
to run Relationships Programmes in schools, churches and community centres. Rachel
also runs Romance Academy projects in her local area and teaches PSHE in secondary
schools in North London. She has a passion to see the church and wider society build
wisdom, self-esteem and compassion for others into young people’s lives.
Rachel came to faith as a young person and after school, studied at London School of Theology. She married Jason in 2001 and has lived and worked in Harrow, North London ever since.
She loves Music Festivals (as long as the loos are working!), flowery dresses from TopShop and chips with curry sauce
Dr Paul Miller
I read Medicine at the Queen's University of Belfast, qualifying in 1994. Subsequently
I obtained a Diploma in Mental Health (QUB) and was elected to Membership of the
Royal College of Psychiatrists in 1999. My involvement with the Genetic Epidemiology
of Mental Illness in Northern Ireland (GEMINI) Research Project led to a Doctor
of Medicine (MD) degree in 2006. I work in both General Adult Psychiatry and Old
Age Psychiatry in the Private Sector (with a special interest in trauma work), having
previously held Consultant posts in the NHS.
I have a special interest in the psychological impact of trauma and am an expert in Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing. I am an EMDR Europe Approved Consultant and EMDR Institute Facilitator (USA).
I am involved in university level education as an Honorary Clinical Lecturer at the Queen’s University of Belfast and also teach on the specialist trauma module at the University of Ulster - Magee Campus.
In 2005-6 I developed and led a suicide prevention project for, a Northern Ireland charity. The project worked with young men in the 16 to 25-year-old age group delivering training and awareness in the area of positive mental health in workshop and residential settings.
I set up ABEO in 2007 as an organisation that works with men looking at areas such as sexuality, fathering and men's mental health.
Jonathan Berry
Jonathan Berry was involved in a long-term gay relationship from the age of 17 to
24, before being converted to faith in Christ. He later went on to study at Bible
College and then served in a church in East London for 10 years, firstly as Assistant
Minister and Youth Worker and subsequently as the Pastor. Jonathan is now the director
of a UK-wide ministry called True Freedom Trust, which seeks to support people saved
out of a gay lifestyle, and those already in the church who struggle with same-sex
attractions and related issues. Jonathan describes himself as a 'contented single'
and is a keen supporter of Arsenal Football Club.
Lindsey Holley
Lindsey Holley is the Public Policy Officer for Evangelical Alliance Northern Ireland
presenting a Christian voice to government and society on a wide range of issues.
Lindsey has been married to Dawie for 7 years and they have two wee boys - JJ (b.
2006) & Seb (b. 2008). She moved over from England in 2005 after Dawie returned home
to NI for work. She originally trained as a teacher, but prior to her move over the
water she worked in London for the Churches Criminal Justice Forum as their Policy
Officer and before that was an intern with Tearfund.
Nial McNally
Niall is a Husband and Father of 4 children, and is the director of Cast Ministries,
which is a Youth Ministry that he and his wife founded 13 year ago. The ministry
teaches on issues of personal, social & faith development. Niall's insights and life
experience bring a real fresh and practical approach to the topic of Porn. Niall
has consistently received the highest evaluations from both Students & Teachers a
like for his input for the last 6 years on his Think Twice session on relationships
- at the Life NI Schools Conferences, which tours 10 venues in 10 days to 4,000 students
Jasper Rutherford

I have been the youth worker at Willowfield Parish Church for over 6 years and have been married to my beautiful wife Lynne for nearly the same time - we have two gorgeous children. Elijah who will be 3 in January and Shannon who was born in June 2009. They are both amazing and Lynne and I feel so blessed to be their parents. We are still finding our feet with it all, but love every stage of it so far! I love all sports, (seriously, if it's a competition I will watch it or try and play in it), but football is by far the greatest game on the planet. Favorite quote - "We can do no great thing. Only small things with great love." (Mother Teresa)
Dr Dick
ie Barr
Dickie is a GP and Medical Director of Love for Life, a relationships and sexuality education project that delivers programmes annually to over 20,000 young people. In the past he has been involved in Pastoral Care work and most specifically “crisis pregnancy support”. He is married to Janice and they have 6 children aged from 14 to 23. One of his daughters is waiting for a lung transplant and is fundraising to build a school in Uganda. See http://charlenesproject-theschool.blogspot.com
Olwyn Marks
Olwyn Mark is CEO of Love for Life, a Relationships and Sexuality Education project
with the vision to influence change within society so that young people have a healthy
respect for themselves, relationships and sex. Following a degree in European Business
and further studies in Politics, Olwyn worked in Brussels for a few years before
returning to Northern Ireland to work for CARE (Christian Action Research and Education)
as a public policy officer. She has been with Love for Life for 4 years, with a desire
to encourage young people to reach their God-given potential and build healthy and
lasting relationships. She loves spending quality time with people and is interested
in all things political (!)